Friday, September 26, 2008

The Party's Over

A good friend sent me this column written by Pat Buchanan. Buchanan hasn't always been a favorite of mine but I think he's made very good points here.

 

The Crash of 2008, which is now wiping out trillions of dollars of our people's wealth, is, like the Crash of 1929, likely to mark the end of one era and the onset of another.

The new era will see a more sober and much diminished America. The "Omnipower" and "Indispensable Nation" we heard about in all the hubris and braggadocio following our Cold War victory is history.

Seizing on the crisis, the left says we are witnessing the failure of market economics, a failure of conservatism. This is nonsense. What we are witnessing is the collapse of Gordon Gecko ("Greed Is Good!") capitalism. What we are witnessing is what happens to a prodigal nation that ignores history, and forgets and abandons the philosophy and principles that made it great.

A true conservative cherishes prudence and believes in fiscal responsibility, balanced budgets and a self-reliant republic. He believes in saving for retirement and a rainy day, in deferred gratification, in not buying on credit what you cannot afford, in living within your means.  Is that really what got Wall Street and us into this mess - that we followed too religiously the gospel of Robert Taft and Russell Kirk?  "Government must save us!" cries the left, as ever. Yet, who got us into this mess if not the government - the Fed with its easy money, Bush with his profligate spending, and Congress and the SEC by liberating Wall Street and failing to step in and stop the drunken orgy?

For years, we Americans have spent more than we earned. We save nothing. Credit card debt, consumer debt, auto debt, mortgage debt, corporate debt - all are at record levels. And with pensions and savings being wiped out, much of that debt will never be repaid.  Our standard of living is inevitably going to fall. For foreigners will not forever buy our bonds or lend us more money if they rightly fear that they will be paid back, if at all, in cheaper dollars.  We are going to have to learn to live again without our means.

The party's over.  Up through World War II, we followed the Hamiltonian idea that America must remain economically independent of the world in order to remain politically independent. But this generation decided that was yesterday's bromide and we must march bravely forward into a Global Economy, where we all depend on one another. American companies morphed into "global companies" and moved plants and factories to Mexico, Asia, China and India, and we began buying more cheaply from abroad what we used to make at home: shoes, clothes, bikes, cars, radios, TVs, planes, computers.

As the trade deficits began inexorably to rise to 6 percent of GDP, we began vast borrowing from abroad to continue buying from abroad.   At home, propelled by tax cuts, war in Iraq and an explosion in social spending, surpluses vanished and deficits reappeared and began to rise. The dollar began to sink, and gold began to soar. Yet, still, the promises of the politicians come. Barack Obama will give us national health insurance and tax cuts for all but that 2 percent of the nation that already carries 50 percent of the federal income tax load.  

John McCain is going to cut taxes, expand the military, move NATO into Georgia and Ukraine, confront Russia and force Iran to stop enriching uranium or "bomb, bomb, bomb," with Joe Lieberman as wartime consigliere.

Who are we kidding?  What we are witnessing today is how empires end.  The Last Superpower is unable to defend its borders, protect its currency, win its wars or balance its budget.  Medicare and Social Security are headed for the cliff with unfunded liabilities in the tens of trillions of dollars. What we are witnessing today is nothing less than a Katrina-like failure of government, of our political class, and of democracy itself, casting a cloud over the viability and longevity of the system.

Notice who is managing the crisis. Not our elected leaders. Nancy Pelosi says she had nothing to do with it. Congress is paralyzed and heading home. President Bush is nowhere to be seen.  Hank Paulson of Goldman Sachs and Ben Bernanke of the Fed chose to bail out Bear Sterns but let Lehman go under. They decided to nationalize Fannie and Freddie at a cost to taxpayers of hundreds of billions, putting the U.S. government behind $5 trillion in mortgages. They decided to buy AIG with $85 billion rather than see the insurance giant sink beneath the waves.

An unelected financial elite is now entrusted with the assignment of getting us out of a disaster into which an unelected financial elite plunged the nation. We are just spectators.  

What the Greatest Generation handed down to us - the richest, most powerful, most self-sufficient republic in history, with the highest standard of living any nation had ever achieved - the baby boomers, oblivious and self-indulgent to the end, have frittered away.

Patrick Buchanan

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Step One


Take the first step in faith.

You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.

A Perpetual Struggle Against Self

The life of a Christian is nothing but a perpetual struggle against self; there is no flowering of the soul to the beauty of its perfection except at the price of pain."

St. Pio of Pietrelcina (1887-1968) 

Beautiful People

The most beautiful people are those who have
known defeat,
known suffering,
known struggle,
known loss, and
have found their way out of the depths.

These persons have
an appreciation,
a sensitivity, and
an understanding of life
that fills them with
compassion,
gentleness, and
a deep loving concern.

Beautiful people do not just happen.

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Through These Doors



Dear God,

Please get me through these doors.

A meeting is what I need.

Remind me to leave my ego and intolerance outside.

Help me to hear the strength and hope in everyone's words.

We are the same but appear so different.

I will remember that others' experiences will help my recovery just as my experience may help another.  Amen.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Getting Our Worries Out

Trying to ignore our worries only pushes them underground.

Pretending we are not anxious, when we are, is a tactic that fools no one, especially not ourselves.

Attempting to deny or repress our fears and worries does not work.

The result is often depression or a physical ailment, indicating that in our subconscious, we know very well that something is wrong.

The rigorous honesty of the Twelve Step way of life saves us from playing destructive games with ourselves.

A worry that we can define and examine in the light of day is far less threatening than one we are trying to hide.

So let's ask ourselves what it is we fear.

If our worry is a rational one, we need to decide what we can do to prepare for the worst-case scenario.

If the worry is irrational, we need to figure out how to get rid of it.

But, no matter whether a worry is rational or irrational, we can't turn it over until we acknowledge we have it.

Getting our worries out in the open and talking about them with people whose judgment we trust keeps us grounded in reality.

 

If I am worried about something today,
I will consciously examine it so that I can resolve it.

 

Inner Harvest by Elisabeth

 


Wednesday, September 17, 2008

My Life = My Thoughts

The universe is transformation;
our life is what our thoughts make it.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

 

It's awesome, the power I wield in the life that unfolds before me.

My dreams shine like beacons in the dimness of my mind.

Just as my thoughts can nurture positive experiences and outcomes, negative episodes might be drawn to me, too.

I can be sure, though, that I use this individual power to create the flavor of each day as it's met.

My attitude is the by-product of my thoughts.

It is in my attitude that I discover strength or weakness, hope or anxiety, determination or frustration.

Alone, I determine whether my attitude will be loving or jaundiced.

The breadth of personal power is awesome.

Today will be what I choose to make it.

No more and no less.

A Sense Of Wonder

If I had influence with the good fairy who is supposed to preside over the christening of all children, I should ask that her gift to each child in the world be a sense of wonder so indestructible that it would last throughout life.

 

Rachel Carson

 

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Living or Waiting?

I'll live today in the present, handling every problem as well as I can and enjoying every experience that comes to me.

Monday, September 15, 2008

CARDS

Call your sponsor,
Ask for help from your Higher Power,
Read the Big Book,
Do the Twelve Steps,
Stay active in your group.

Beloved Dust

In the eyes of the lord I am a sinner and nothing but dust; 
I live by the mercy of Jesus.
Blessed John XXIII

Keeping It Together


 

We can only survive our world when we trust that God knows us more intimately than we know ourselves.

We can only keep it together when we believe that God holds us together.

We can only win our lives when we remain faithful to the truth that every little part of us, yes, every hair, is completely safe in the divine embrace of our Lord.

To say it differently: When we keep living a spiritual life, we have nothing to be afraid of.

Henri Nouwen

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Control Robs Me of Serenity

God, grant me serenity today, 
along with wisdom and acceptance, 
so I can fulfill your will.

Words For The Day


 

Service is the rent we pay for
the privilege of living on this earth.

It is the very purpose of life, and
not something you do in your spare time.

Shirley Chisolm

 

 

At first dreams seem impossible,

then improbable, then inevitable.

Christopher Reeve

 

 

In the stillness of the quiet, if we listen,

we can hear the whisper of the heart

giving strength to weakness,

courage to fear, hope to despair.

Howard Thurman

 

 

The coin that pays for ecstasy
is always stamped despair.

One cannot love empathically
until one wanders there.

 Jane Krainin

Dictated right before she died of ALS

 

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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

How Empty My Life Would Be!


 

I could walk around the yard barefoot in safety.

My house could be carpeted instead of tiled and laminated.

All flat surfaces, clothing, furniture, and cars would be free of hair.

When the doorbell rings, it wouldn't sound like a kennel.

When the doorbell rings, I could get to the door without wading through fuzzy bodies who beat me there.

I could sit on the couch and my bed the way I wanted, without taking into consideration how much space several fur bodies would need to get comfortable.

I would have money . . . and no guilt to go on a real vacation.

I would not be on a first-name basis with 6 veterinarians, as I put their yet unborn grand kids through college.

The most used words in my vocabulary would not be: out, sit, down, come, no, stay, and leave him/her/it ALONE.

My house would not be cordoned off into zones with baby gates or barriers.

My house would not look like a day care center, toys everywhere.

My pockets would not contain things like poop bags, treats and an extra leash.

I would no longer have to spell the words B-A-L-L, F-R-I-S-B-E- E, W-A-L-K, T-R-E-A-T, B-I-K-E, G-O, R-I-D-E

I would not have as many leaves INSIDE my house as outside.

I would not look strangely at people who think having ONE dog or cat ties them down too much.

I'd look forward to spring and the rainy season instead of dreading 'mud' season.

I would not have to answer the question "Why do you have so many animals?" from people who will never have the joy in their lives of knowing they are loved unconditionally by someone as close to an angel as they will ever get.

How EMPTY my life would be!

 

~~ @@ ~~

 

If I could only be the person my dog thinks I am.

Twelve Differences Between Your Sponsor And Your Therapist

(1)     Your sponsor isn't all that interested in the "reasons" you drank.

(2)     Your therapist thinks your root problem is your lack of self-esteem, negative self-image, and your poor self-concept. Your sponsor thinks your problem is a 3-letter word with no hyphens: YOU

(3)     Your therapist wants you to pamper your  "inner child". Your sponsor thinks it ought to be spanked.

(4)     Your sponsor thinks your inventory should be about you, not your parents.

(5)     Speaking of your parents, your sponsor tells you not to confront them, but to make amends to them.

(6)     The only time your sponsor uses the word "closure" is before the word "mouth ". 

(7)     Your sponsor thinks "boundaries" are things you need to take down, not build up.

(8      Your therapist wants you to love yourself first; your sponsor wants you to love others first.

(9)     Your therapist prescribes caretaking and medication.  Your sponsor prescribes prayer-making and meditation.

(10)   Your sponsor thinks "anger management skills" are numbered 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, and 12.

(11)   Now that you haven't had a drink in 6 months, your therapist  thinks you should make a list of your goals and objectives for the next 5  years, starting with finishing up that college degree.  Your sponsor thinks you should start today by cleaning the coffee pots, helping him carry a heavy box of literature to the jail, and making your bed.

(12)   Your sponsor won't lose his license to practice if he talks about God.

 

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Thoughts To Consider


 

Let us learn to skillfully draw good out of
what would otherwise cause us harm.

St. Mary Euphrasia Pelletier
Embrace the World

 

Sometimes people get the mistaken notion that spirituality
is a separate department of life, the penthouse of existence.
But rightly understood, it is a vital awareness
that pervades all realms of our being.

Brother David Steindl-Rast

 

Each of us has a fire in our hearts for something.

It’s our goal in life to find it and keep it lit.

Mary Lou Retton

 

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle.

Philo of Alexandria

 

If you love truth, be a lover of silence.

Silence, like the sunlight will illuminate you in God.

St. Issac - 7th Century Hermit Monk

 

Today is only a small manageable segment of time
in which our difficulties need not overwhelm us.

This lifts from our hearts and minds
the heavy weight of both past and future.

Anonymous

 

I've learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Maya Angelou

 

Suffering is the sandpaper of our life.

It does its work of shaping us.

Suffering is part of our training program for becoming wise.

Ram Dass