Showing posts with label judgment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judgment. Show all posts

Monday, October 12, 2009

Seek Him In All Souls


by Pir-o-Murshid Inayat Khan

As fruit ripens in the course of nature, so it is in the course of nature that the soul should mature; and it is no use being disappointed or disheartened about ourselves and about those near and dear to us, worrying because our husband, wife, father, or mother does not look at spiritual matters in the same way as we do.

In the first place no man, however wise or pious, has the right to judge another soul.

Who knows what is hidden behind every action, appearance, speech, and manner?

No one.

And when a person begins to know what is hidden in the human soul, in spite of all deluding appearances he will have respect, a respect for mankind, as he realizes that in the depth of every soul is He whom one worships.

Just as the religious person has a religious attitude in a temple, so the Sufi has that attitude before every being, for to him every being is the temple of the divine.

Therefore the Sufi is always before his Lord.

Whether a servant, a master, a friend, or a foe is before him, he is in the presence of God.

For the one whose God is in the high heavens there is a vast gulf between him and God, but the one who has God always before him -- he is always in God's presence, and there is no end to his happiness

God is in all things, and still more He is in all beings.

Seek Him in all souls, good and bad, wise and foolish, attractive or unattractive, for in the depth of each there is God.

Man swimming in the sea does not know the fish living in the sea, so we living in God do not recognize all souls living in God also.

He is all around and about us at every moment, we are living His life, we are breathing His breath, and yet we are ignorant of the perfection of beauty which unites and inspires every soul.

Seek Him in all souls,
good or bad,
wise and foolish,
attractive and unattractive;
in the depths of each there is God.

Monday, August 31, 2009

Avoid Judgment and Criticism


Try not to give way to criticism, blame, scorn, or judgment of others when you are trying to help them.
Effectiveness in helping others depends on controlling yourself.
You may be swept away by a temporary natural urge to criticize or blame, unless you keep a tight rein on your emotions.
You should have a firm foundation of spiritual living which makes you truly humble, if you are going to really help other people.
Go easy on them and be hard on yourself.
That is the way you can be used most to uplift a despairing spirit.
And seek no personal recognition for what you are used by God to accomplish.

I pray that I may try to avoid judgment and criticism.
I pray that I may always try to build up others instead of tearing them down.