Monday, June 30, 2008

Shepherd Me, O God Prayer


 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.

 

God is my shepherd,
so nothing shall I want,
I rest in the meadows of faithfulness and love,
I walk by the quiet waters of peace.

 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.

 

Gently you raise me and heal my weary soul,
you lead me by pathways of righteousness and truth,
my spirit shall sing the music of your Name.

 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.

 

Though I should wander the valley of death,
I fear no evil,
for you are at my side, your rod and
your staff, my comfort and my hope.

 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.

 

You have set me a banquet of love in the face of hatred,
crowning me with love beyond my power to hold.

 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.

 

Surely your kindness and mercy follow me all the days of my life;
I will dwell in the house of my God forevermore.

 

Shepherd me, O God,
beyond my wants,
beyond my fears,
from death into life.


Based on Psalm 23

 

Nothingness Into Love

Prayer is freedom and affirmation 
growing out of nothingness into love. 
Prayer is the flowering of our inmost freedom 
in response to the Word of God.

Thomas Merton. 
Contemplation in A World of Action 

Keep Moving Forward

We keep moving forward,

opening new doors,

and doing new things,

because we're curious

and curiosity keeps leading

us down new paths.

Walt Disney

Two Minuses A Plus

Sometimes two minuses make a plus.

Edith Shannon

 

What appears to be a problem sometimes turns out to be a most beneficial circumstance.

I live only in the present, and it generally takes the perspective of hindsight to get the full meaning of an event.

Over the years, I have learned that some of our best lessons actually caused me pain while I was in their clutches.

What a relief to be able to see, now, that they had their silver lining.

This principle still holds true.

 

I can't let a setback set me back today. 

I am evolving right on schedule.

Spiritual Courage

Spiritual courage is following the deepest desires of our hearts 
at the risk of losing fame and popularity. 
It asks of us the willingness to lose our temporal lives 
in order to gain eternal life.

Henri Nouwen

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Darkness

The darkness was encumbering only because 
I relied upon my sight for everything I did, 
not knowing that another way 
was to let power be the guide.

Carlos Castaneda

Suffering

Suffering exists not for the purpose of hurting us, 

but to teach us where genuine good is to be found, 

and thus to make us stronger, 

more intelligent and more vibrant.

 

Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Failure Is The Norm

Baseball teaches us, or has taught most of us, 
how to deal with failure.

We learn at a very young age that 
failure is the norm in baseball 
and ... errors [are] part of the game, 
part of its rigorous truth.
Francis T. Vincent, Jr.


Of course we will make mistakes.

We are born with the right to make mistakes.

There is no shame in that.

Perfection is a false ideal for a real human being.

We learn by trial and error.

If we try to be perfect, we will meet dead ends and roadblocks because we will inevitably fall short.

 

Instead, there is wisdom in the motto, "Keep coming back."

In this instance, the motto refers to returning to our standards.

Rather than to strive constantly for higher and higher perfection, our goal is to always return to the rules we live by.

Of course we will veer off the path.

When we do, we make repairs, pay our dues, and hold our place as full-fledged members of the human race.

 

Today my goal is to keep returning to my ethics for a good life.

Wisdom to Know by Anonymous

 

I Don't Understand Why

I imagine that the present 
is as it should be.

It is perfectly unfolding even 
if I don't understand why.

Evelyn Rodriguez

 

Something To Make You Happy


If God had a refrigerator,
your picture would be on it.

 

If He had a wallet,
your photo would be in it.


He sends you flowers every spring.


He sends you a sunrise every morning.

 

Face it, friend - He is crazy about you!

 

God didn't promise days without pain,
laughter without sorrow,
sun without rain,
but He did promise strength for the day,
comfort for the tears, and
light for the way.

 

If God brings you to it,
He will bring you through it. 

Benefits

"Every adversity, 

every failure, 

every heartache

carries with it the seed 

of an equal or greater benefit."

Napoleon Hill, 

Think & Grow Rich



Monday, June 23, 2008

People

People, even more than things,
have to be restored, renewed,
revived, reclaimed, and redeemed;
never throw out anyone.

Audrey Hepburn

शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना


Work Of Recovery

Man can live his truth,
his deepest truth,
but cannot speak it.

Archibald. MacLeish

Let me have the trust to give myself to the work of recovery and follow it where it takes me.

Tansanian Proverb


We may forget with whom we laughed,
but not with whom we shared tears।

Tansanian proverb

शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Solution-Full Life


In life, the difficult periods are the best periods
to gain experience and shore up determination.
As a result, my mental status
is much improved because of them.
The Dalai Lama

Life is a process of meeting and solving problems.
Solving problems is a way that we test and develop our spiritual muscle. Problems often come to us in the form of crisis.

Rather than pray for a life that is problem-free, ask for one that is solution-full.
Instead of requesting that God remove the mountain before you, seek the strength to climb it.
Remember that the best students always get the toughest problems.

Love the problems you have, and their priceless gifts will be yours.

शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Thursday, June 19, 2008

The Professional

A woman was at work when she received a phone call that her small daughter was very sick with a fever. She left her work and stopped by the pharmacy to get some medication. She got back to her car and found that she had locked her keys in the car. She didn't know what to do, so she called home and told the baby sitter what had happened.

The baby sitter told her that the fever was getting worse. She said, "You might find a coat hanger and use that to open the door."

The woman looked around and found an old rusty coat hanger that had been left on the ground, possibly by someone else who at some time had locked their keys in their car. She looked at the hanger and said, "I don't know how to use this."

She bowed her head and asked God to send her help. Within five minutes a beat up old motorcycle pulled up, with a dirty, greasy, bearded man who was wearing an old biker skull rag on his head.

The woman thought, "This is what you sent to help me?" But, she was desperate, so.... She was also very thankful.

The man got off of his cycle and asked if he could help. She said, "Yes, my daughter is very sick. I stopped to get her some medication and I locked my keys in my car. I must get home to her. Please, can you use this hanger to unlock my car?"

He said, "Sure." He walked over to the car, and in less than a minute the car was opened.

She hugged the man and through her tears she said, "Thank you so much! You are a very nice man."

The man replied, "Lady, I am not a nice man. I just got out of prison today. I was in prison for car theft and have only been out for about an hour."

The woman hugged the man again and with sobbing tears cried out loud,

"Oh, Thank you God!
You even sent me a professional!"

शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Venerable Matt Talbot

Venerable Matt Talbot
(1856-1925)

Matt can be considered the patron of men and women struggling with alcoholism.

Matt was born in Dublin, where his father worked on the docks and had a difficult time supporting his family. After a few years of schooling, Matt obtained work as a messenger for some liquor merchants; there he began to drink excessively. For 15 years—until he was 30—Matt was an active alcoholic.

One day he decided to take "the pledge" for three months, make a general confession and begin to attend daily Mass. There is evidence that Matt’s first seven years after taking the pledge were especially difficult. Avoiding his former drinking places was hard. He began to pray as intensely as he used to drink. He also tried to pay back people from whom he had borrowed or stolen money while he was drinking.

Most of his life Matt worked as a builder’s laborer. He joined the Secular Franciscan Order and began a life of strict penance; he abstained from meat nine months a year. Matt spent hours every night avidly reading Scripture and the lives of the saints. He prayed the rosary conscientiously. Though his job did not make him rich, Matt contributed generously to the missions.

After 1923 his health failed and Matt was forced to quit work. He died on his way to church on Trinity Sunday. Fifty years later Pope Paul VI gave him the title venerable.

Comment:

In looking at the life of Matt Talbot, we may easily focus on the later years when he had stopped drinking for some time and was leading a penitential life. Only alcoholic men and women who have stopped drinking can fully appreciate how difficult the earliest years of sobriety were for Matt.

He had to take one day at a time. So do the rest of us.

Quote:

On an otherwise blank page in one of Matt’s books, the following is written:
"God console thee and make thee a saint. To arrive at the perfection of humility four things are necessary: to despise the world, to despise no one, to despise self, to despise being despised by others."

शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना


Ordinariness

In a world of tension and breakdown it is necessary for there to be those who seek to integrate their inner lives not by avoiding anguish and running away from problems, but by facing them in their naked reality and in their ordinariness.
Thomas Merton


शिप्व्रेक्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Monday, June 16, 2008

Water On Mars


शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

The Sacred Red Rose of Friendship



Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;

Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.

Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;

Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.

Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

This is the sacred Red Rose.

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Opportunity

Seize the opportunity by the beard,
for it is bald behind.
Bulgarian proverb
Today I'll be on the lookout or God's opportunities।
God seldom takes us by the scruff of the neck and pulls us to our next destination.
God provides the opportunities; it's up to us to seize them.
God talks to us; it's up to us to listen.
शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Silence Of Listening


In the silence of listening,
you can know yourself in everyone,
the unseen singing softly to itself and to you.

Rachel Naomi Remen

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Wait And Listen

It is not speaking that breaks our silence, but the anxiety to be heard.

The words of the proud man impose silence on all others, so that he alone may be heard.

The humble man speaks only in order to be spoken to.

The humble man asks nothing but an alms, then waits and listens.

Thomas Merton
Thoughts in Solitude

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Stillness




www.gratefulness.org


Let us accept the invitation, ever-open,
from the Stillness,
taste its exquisite sweetness,
and heed its silent instruction.
Paul Brunton
Perspectives

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Friday, June 13, 2008

Be Content


www.gratefulness.

Be contented with what you possess in life;
be thankful for what does not belong to you,
for it is so much care the less;
but try to obtain what you need in life, and
make the best of every moment of your life.

Hazrat Inayat Khan
Gayan

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Rushing Through

"AndthankyouforkeepingmestraightyesterdayAmen."

Sometimes I can almost hear God saying,

"What did he just say?"

शिप्व्रेच्केद इन साउथ कैरोलाइना

Ode To The Doughnut


National Donut Day

Did you know...

National Donut Day is celebrated on the first Friday in June.

In 1917, Salvation Army female volunteers known as “lassies” prepared thousands of fresh donuts to the homesick soldiers that served in France during World War I.

National Donut Day was officially established in 1938 by the Chicago Salvation Army to raise much-needed funds during the Great Depression.

Donut Glossary from Around the World

Italy = fritole
Montenegro = ustipci
Mexico = churrro
Turkey = lokma
France = beignet
Germany = krapfen
Hungary = langos
India = balushai
Netherlands = oliebollen

Donut Facts

In the U.S. alone, more than 10 billion donuts are made every year.

The largest donut ever made was an American-style jelly donut weighing 1.7 tons, which was 16 feet in diameter and 16 inches high in the center.

Per capita, Canada has more donut shops than any other country.

The hole in the donut's center appeared in the first half of the 19th Century.

Adolph Levitt invented the first donut machine in 1920.

Ode to the Doughnut

Written by Julia Szabo.

Topped with a maple glaze or rolled in sugar, the appeal of fresh doughnuts is difficult to resist.
Whatever your preference -- the fluffy yeast style or the denser cake variety -- great old-fashioned doughnut-shop confections are fun and easy to make at home.
Simple, Irresistible

It's no accident that these sublime rings of deep-fried dough resemble halos: Doughnuts are heaven on earth, and they have quite an illustrious history.
First, Dutch immigrants rolled fried bread dough in sugar to create olykoeks ("oily cakes"), the poor man's patisserie.
In 1847, Elizabeth Gregory, of Rockport, ME, sent her son Hanson off to sea with a batch of special cakes -- "dough-nuts," she called them.
Legend has it that to free his hands while on a voyage, Hanson impaled the snack on a spoke of the ship's wheel, and the doughnut hole was born.

During the First World War, Salvation Army women fried up thousands of doughnuts to boost the morale of American troops, thus nicknamed "doughboys," and doughnuts -- an eminently affordable, utterly irresistible luxury -- have been lifting spirits ever since.

Hold the Jelly

Instead, dunk plain doughnut holes in a tapenade made of fruit preserves and fruity liqueur.
Raspberry-Chambord dipping sauce transforms the plainest doughnut holes into haute desserts.
And what could be better than chocolate-frosted doughnuts?
How about doughnut holes dipped in a decadent combination of melted bittersweet chocolate, Kahlúa, and vanilla -- or brandy-spiked dulce de leche?
For grown-up entertaining with a playful streak, doughnut holes make easy-to-handle fondue dippers.
Dunk them singly or stack a few on a skewer for a sweet version of satay.
Purists prefer doughnut holes adorned with little more than a sprinkling of sugar, while more sophisticated palates will thrill to the ultimate coffee break: dipping fresh doughnut holes into a demitasse of rich, dark espresso.


Donut Recipes

Cappuccino Doughnuts - 12 Servings

Topped with creamy icing and a dusting of cinnamon, a coffee-flavored Cappuccino Doughnut is the ideal accompaniment to the frothy beverage that inspired it. Powdered buttermilk can be purchased at grocery stores and specialty-food stores nationwide.

INGREDIENTS
3 1/4 cups plus 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1 tablespoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon powdered buttermilk
3/4 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon salt
2/3 cup milk
1/4 cup unsalted butter, melted
1/4 cup instant espresso powder
2 large eggs, beaten
3/4 cup sugar
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying
1 recipe Creamy Frosting

DIRECTIONS
1. Make the batter: Combine the flour, baking powder, baking soda, powdered buttermilk, cinnamon, and salt in a large bowl and set aside. Combine milk and butter in a small bowl; add espresso powder and stir until dissolved; set aside. Whisk together the eggs, sugar, and vanilla in a large bowl until thick — about 2 minutes. Using a wooden spoon, alternately incorporate the flour and milk mixtures into the egg mixture until well combined. Cover the bowl with plastic wrap and chill for 1 hour.

2. Make the doughnuts: Turn the dough out onto a generously floured work surface. Flour the dough and roll it out to about 3/4 inch thick. Cut doughnuts out of the dough using a 3-inch doughnut cutter and transfer them to a baking sheet. Gather dough scraps, reroll, and repeat cutting doughnuts until all dough is used. Chill doughnuts for 30 minutes.

3. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 350°F. Fry the doughnuts three at a time for about 2 minutes per side or until golden. Remove doughnuts with a slotted spoon and drain on a wire rack. Repeat with remaining doughnuts. Once cooled, top doughnuts with Creamy Frosting, sprinkle with cinnamon, and serve immediately.

Apple-Cider Doughnuts

A great-tasting variation of our Cappuccino Doughnuts (see related links)—whip up a batch no matter the season. Yields: Makes about a dozen doughnuts.

DIRECTIONS
Follow the directions for making Cappuccino Doughnuts (see Related Links) but add 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg to the flour mixture. Replace the milk with apple cider and omit the espresso powder. Sugar the hot doughnuts by combining 1 tablespoon cinnamon with 3 cups sugar in a large closeable container and placing them, one at a time, in the sugar mixture and shaking to cover. Serve immediately or keep in an airtight container for up to 2 days.


Creamy Frosting

Try this creamy frosting on our Cappuccino Doughnuts. Yields: About 1 1/2 cups.

INGREDIENTS
4 ounces cream cheese, softened
4 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1/2 cup confectioners' sugar
1/2 cup heavy cream

DIRECTIONS
Make the frosting: Combine cream cheese, butter, and vanilla in a large bowl with mixer set on medium speed. Add the sugar and beat until mixture is light. Add the heavy cream and beat mixture until fluffy. Use immediately or refrigerate for up to 12 hours.

Buttermilk Drop Doughnuts - 25 Servings

Rolled in shredded coconut, gift-boxed doughnuts can "hole" their own against the fanciest truffles. By making use of every last bit of dough, doughnut holes deliciously embody the all-American virtue of “waste not, want not.” Whether plain or sprinkled with chopped nuts, their compact size makes these doughnut holes the perfect lunchbox stuffer for both pint-size and adult gourmets.

INGREDIENTS
2 cups plus 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
3/4 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
3/4 teaspoon fresh-grated nutmeg
1/2 cup plus 2 tablespoons sugar
2 large eggs
1 cup buttermilk
5 tablespoons butter, melted
1/2 cup apricot preserves, strained
1 1/2 cups shredded, sweetened coconut
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying

DIRECTIONS
1. Make the dough: Combine the flour, salt, baking powder, baking soda, nutmeg, and sugar in a large bowl. Whisk the egg, buttermilk, and butter together in a small bowl and stir it into flour mixture until combined.

2. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 370°F. Drop heaping tablespoons of batter, about six doughnuts at a time, into the oil and cook until golden all over — 4 to 5 minutes. Remove doughnuts with a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels. Repeat with remaining doughnuts. Let cool on a wire rack.

3. Glaze the doughnuts: Brush warm doughnuts with the apricot preserves and roll in the shredded coconut. Serve immediately.

Filled Doughnuts - 20 Servings

This great old-fashioned doughnut-shop confection is fun and easy to make at home. Experiment with different fillings for flavor variations.

INGREDIENTS
1 cup water, warmed to 110°F
2 packages active dry yeast
4 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
12 tablespoons plus 1 teaspoon unsalted butter, softened
3/4 cup sugar
2 large eggs
2 large egg yolks
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
1 teaspoon salt
2 cups filling (try Dulce de Leche, Vanilla Pudding Filling, or jelly)
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying

DIRECTIONS
1. Make the dough: Combine water and yeast in a large bowl, stir until yeast dissolves, and let stand for 5 minutes. Stir in 1 cup flour, cover with plastic wrap, and let stand until bubbly — about 30 minutes. Lightly coat a large bowl with 1 teaspoon butter and set aside. Place remaining butter in a large bowl and beat in a stand mixer fitted with a paddle attachment or by hand with a wooden spoon until creamy — about 1 minute. Add sugar and beat until light and fluffy. Add eggs and yolks, one at a time, beating after each addition until well incorporated. Add the vanilla and beat until combined. Reduce mixer speed to low and add the yeast mixture and the salt. Gradually add the flour and mix until the flour is fully incorporated and the dough begins to pull away from the sides of the bowl. Place in the prepared bowl and turn to coat all sides. Cover the bowl with plastic wrap and let rise in a warm, draft-free place until doubled in volume — 1 1/2 to 2 hours. Punch down dough, remove from the bowl, and wrap
2. Cook the doughnuts: Line 2 baking sheets with parchment paper; sprinkle each lightly with flour and set aside. Turn the dough out onto a generously floured work surface and roll it out to about 1/4 inch thick. Cut out doughnuts using a 3 1/2-inch round cutter and transfer them to the prepared baking sheets. Gather dough scraps, reroll, and repeat cutting doughnuts until all the dough is used. Let rise, uncovered, in a warm draft-free place until puffy — about 30 minutes.
3. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 365°F. Fry the doughnuts three at a time until golden — about 2 minutes per side. Remove doughnuts with a slotted spoon and drain on a wire rack.
4. Fill the doughnuts: Place filling in a pastry bag fitted with a long, narrow pastry tip, such as a Bismarck tip. While doughnuts are still slightly warm, insert the tip into the inside of a doughnut. Apply light, continuous pressure to the pastry bag while slowly moving the tip slightly from side to side and pulling the tip out of the doughnut. Serve immediately.

Vanilla Pudding Filling

Try this vanilla pudding as a delicious filler for our Filled Doughnuts. Yields: About 2 cups.

INGREDIENTS
1 cup whole milk
1 cup heavy cream
3 large egg yolks
1/4 cup sugar
2 tablespoons honey
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1/8 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

DIRECTIONS
Make the pudding: Combine the milk and 1/2 cup cream in a small saucepan and bring to a simmer over medium heat. In a large bowl, whisk egg yolks, sugar, honey, flour, and salt together until thick and light. Continuing to whisk, add the hot milk mixture to the egg mixture in a slow stream. Return the mixture to the saucepan and, stirring constantly, bring just to a boil. Transfer the pudding to a medium bowl and cool for 30 seconds. Stir in the butter and vanilla, cover with plastic wrap laid directly on the surface of the pudding, and chill until cooled throughout — at least 1 hour. Whip the remaining cream until soft peaks form. Fold it into the pudding, cover, and chill until ready to use for up to 2 days.


Dulce de Leche

For grown-up entertaining with a playful streak, doughnut holes make easy-to-handle fondue dippers. Try our Lightest Fluffiest Doughnuts with this caramel spread, or use as the filling for Filled Doughnuts. Yields: About 1 cup

INGREDIENTS
2 cups goat's milk
2 cups whole milk
1 cup sugar
1 vanilla bean, split lengthwise, seeds scraped out
1 teaspoon cornstarch
1/4 teaspoon baking soda

DIRECTIONS
Make the dulce de leche: Combine all ingredients in a large saucepan over high heat and bring to a boil. Reduce heat to medium low and cook, stirring frequently, until the mixture is thick and caramel brown — 60 to 70 minutes. Strain through a fine-mesh strainer and refrigerate until ready to use for up to 3 days.


Piped Doughnuts with Orange Glaze - 40 Servings

Subtly sweet, these doughy doughnuts perfectly complement a cup of fresh, roasted coffee.

INGREDIENTS
2 cups whole milk
12 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 vanilla bean, split lengthwise
1 1/4 cups sugar
1 teaspoon salt
2 cups all-purpose flour
8 large eggs
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying
1/2 cup orange juice
2 tablespoons lemon juice

DIRECTIONS
1. Prepare dough: In a medium saucepan, combine milk, butter, 1/2 of the vanilla bean, 1/4 cup of sugar, and salt over high heat and bring just to a boil. Remove from heat, remove vanilla bean, and scrape the seeds back into the milk mixture. Stir in the flour, return the pan to medium heat, and with a wooden spoon stir constantly until the dough pulls away from the sides and the bottom of the pan — about 2 minutes. Transfer the mixture to a bowl and mix using a mixer fitted with the paddle attachment set on low speed or by hand with a wooden spoon for 1 minute. Add the eggs, one at a time, and mix until incorporated.

2. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 375°F. Place the dough in a large pastry bag fitted with a large star tip. Pipe about 6-inch lengths of dough into the oil, cutting them with a knife or offset spatula, and fry for 4 minutes, turning occasionally to cook all sides evenly. Remove the doughnuts with a slotted spoon and drain on a wire rack. Repeat until all the batter is used.

3. Make the glaze: Combine the remaining sugar, vanilla bean, orange juice, and lemon juice in a small saucepan over medium heat and bring to a boil. Use a whisk to stir occasionally for 5 minutes. Remove from heat, strain, and let cool until slightly thickened. Use a brush to coat doughnuts with glaze. Serve immediately.


Double-Chocolate Doughnuts - 12 Servings

This great old-fashioned doughnut-shop confection is fun and easy to make at home. Rich chocolate doughnuts are adorned with a flurry of white sprinkles — pair with milk for a delightful afternoon snack.

INGREDIENTS
1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 cups cake flour
3/4 cup cocoa powder
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
3/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
2 1/2 ounces bittersweet chocolate, grated, plus 4 ounces, chopped
1 cup sugar
3/4 cup buttermilk
4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
2 large eggs
2 large egg yolks
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying
3 tablespoons heavy cream
2 tablespoons white nonpareils

DIRECTIONS
1. Make the dough: Sift the flours, cocoa, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and cinnamon together in a large bowl, add the grated chocolate, and set aside. Combine the sugar, buttermilk, butter, eggs, yolks, and vanilla together in a large bowl and whisk until smooth. Add the flour mixture gradually, stirring until the ingredients are just combined. Scrape down the sides of the bowl and cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate for at least 1 hour or up to 6 hours.

2. Make the doughnuts: Turn the dough out onto a generously floured work surface. Dust the dough lightly with flour and roll out to about 1/2 inch thick. Cut out doughnuts using a 3-inch doughnut cutter and transfer to a baking sheet. Gather dough scraps, reroll, and repeat cutting doughnuts until all dough is used. Chill doughnuts for 30 minutes.

3. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 365°F. Fry the doughnuts three at a time — 1 1/2 to 2 minutes per side. Remove doughnuts with a slotted spoon and drain on a wire rack. Repeat with remaining doughnuts.

4. Make the glaze: Place remaining chocolate in a heat-proof bowl and set aside. Bring cream in small saucepan to a simmer over medium heat. Pour over the chocolate, let sit 30 seconds, and stir until smooth. Top doughnuts with chocolate glaze and sprinkle with nonpareils. Serve immediately.


Lightest Fluffiest Doughnuts - 15 Servings

Serve these doughnut holes with spiked dipping sauces: For Raspberry-Chambord, mix 1/4 cup raspberry preserves and 1 teaspoon Chambord. Chocolate sauce is simply made with 4 ounces melted bittersweet chocolate, 3 tablespoons Kahlúa, and 1/4 teaspoon of vanilla.

INGREDIENTS
1/2 cup plus 1 tablespoon whole milk
1/3 cup olive oil
1/2 cup water, warmed to 110°F
4 1/2 teaspoons active dry yeast (2 packets)
3/4 cup plus 1/4 teaspoon sugar
1/2 cup sour cream
2 large eggs
2 large egg yolks
2 teaspoons salt
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
4 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
4-5 cups vegetable oil for frying
1/2 cup confectioners' sugar

DIRECTIONS
1. Make the dough: Coat a large bowl with vegetable oil and set aside. Gently warm 1/2 cup milk and oil in a small saucepan over medium heat. Combine the water and yeast in a large bowl, stir to dissolve, and sprinkle with 1/4 teaspoon sugar. Let stand for 5 minutes. Add the warm milk and oil to the yeast mixture and stir to combine. Add the remaining sugar, sour cream, eggs, yolks, salt, and vanilla and stir to combine. Add the flour gradually. Transfer the dough to a lightly floured surface and knead until smooth. Place it in the prepared bowl and turn to coat. Cover with plastic wrap and set aside in a warm, draft-free place until doubled in volume — about 2 hours. Punch dough down, re-cover the bowl with plastic wrap, and refrigerate for at least 2 or up to 12 hours.
2. Make the doughnuts: Turn the dough out onto a generously floured work surface. Lightly flour the dough and roll it out to about 3/4 inch thick. Cut doughnuts out of the dough using a 3-inch doughnut cutter and transfer them and their holes to a baking sheet. Gather dough scraps, reroll, and repeat cutting doughnuts and holes until all dough is used. Chill doughnuts and holes for 30 minutes.
3. Fry the doughnuts: Heat about 4 inches of vegetable oil in a large deep skillet fitted with a thermometer over medium-high heat until oil reaches 350°F. Fry the doughnuts three at a time until golden — about 2 minutes per side. Remove doughnuts and holes with a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels. Repeat with remaining doughnuts and holes.
4. Make the glaze: Combine the remaining milk and confectioners' sugar in a small bowl and stir until smooth. While doughnuts and holes are still hot, dip them in the glaze and transfer to a wire rack until glaze is set and doughnuts are cool. Serve immediately.

Sweet-Potato Doughnuts - 15 Servings

Try this variation of our Lightest Fluffiest Doughnuts. This moist, fluffy confection has a lightly delicate flavor: just the cure for a sweet-tooth craving.

DIRECTIONS
Follow the directions for Lightest Fluffiest Doughnuts but replace the sour cream with 8 ounces mashed sweet potato. Add 1/4 teaspoon allspice, 1/4 teaspoon mace, and 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon to the batter. Prepare the doughnut batter and fry as instructed above. Combine 1 cup maple syrup and 1 teaspoon lemon juice in a small saucepan over medium-low heat. Cook until reduced to 3/4 cup — 15 to 20 minutes. Coat hot doughnuts and holes with glaze and sprinkle with 1 cup toasted, chopped walnuts. Let glaze set and serve immediately. Will keep in an airtight container for up to 2 days.

Pink Strawberry Glaze
Top our Lightest Fluffiest Doughnuts with this glaze for a wonderful valentine treat. Yields: About 3/4 cup.

INGREDIENTS
1 20-ounce bag frozen strawberries
1/2 cup sugar
1 1/2 cups confectioners' sugar
2 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
1/4 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

DIRECTIONS
Make the glaze: Place strawberries and 2 tablespoons water in a small saucepan and cook over medium heat until thick — about 30 minutes। Run the contents through a food mill and strain into a small saucepan. Add 1/2 cup sugar and cook until sugar dissolves and mixture thickens to a syrup — about 15 minutes. Combine powdered sugar, butter, vanilla, and 4 tablespoons of the syrup in a medium bowl and whisk until smooth. Use immediately.

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Self-Justifying Historian


The ego is a self-justifying historian,
which seeks only that information that agrees with it,
rewrites history when it needs to, and
does not even see the evidence that threatens it

Anthony G. Greenwald


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Friendship With Oneself

Friendship with oneself is very important
because without it one cannot be friends
with anyone else in the world

Eleanor Roosevelt

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Always

When our own lives go spinning out of control,
when illness and bereavement and
financial hardship strike,
all we can do is cling to the belief that:
God watches over us always.

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Bear Medicine


When the image of a bear enters our consciousness, we may first notice their size, strength, and power, but beyond their physical attributes lay many traits that can guide us deeper into our experience of life. Their abilities as hunters and powerful protectors of their loved ones are well known, but you may also envision them on a quest for variety as they seek out the flavors and scents of the world, first fishing, then enjoying berries, or braving angry bees to indulge in honey. But their hidden strength lies in the bear’s ability to travel between the physical and spiritual worlds, a talent that is recognized all around the world by those who live in harmony with nature.



One way that bears access their inner world is during hibernation when they find a safe and womblike environment to let their physical bodies rest while their spirit travels. They travel through time, mentally digesting and learning from their experiences, but they also travel beyond the realm of mind and body into the dreamtime, where they are able to create their goals and then be rejuvenated by the source of all life. In this sacred space, they are connected to physical, mental, and spiritual realms all at once and can find the balance that they need to reenter the and continue successfully in the world.



Polar bears don’t enter a deep state of hibernation like other bears, but instead fluidly cross between realms on the physical plane as well the spiritual. Their reflective, translucent fur makes them difficult to see as they move across the frozen ice, blending into terrain covered with snow, making them seem like they are shimmering between dimensions. They move as easily in water as on land, agile and able in both worlds. They can remind us that we are one with our environment, inseparable from it. They teach us that while we can take time apart to connect with spirit, we can also carry that awareness with us as we move through life, making the spiritual indistinguishable from the material. By aligning ourselves with bear energy, we fully embody the best of all worlds.


DailyOM


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Letting Going Of Today's Burdens

A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised a glass of water and asked "How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 20 to 35 ounces।

The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter। It depends on how long you try to hold it. If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance. In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

He continued, "And that's the way it is with stress management। If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on।" "As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden." "So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down. Don't carry it home. You can pick it up tomorrow. Whatever burdens you're carrying now, let them down for a moment if you can."

So, my friend, put down anything that may be a burden to you right now। Don't pick it up again until after you've rested a while. Here are some great ways of dealing with the burdens of life:

* Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue.
* Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.
* Always read stuff that will make you look good, if you die in the middle of it.
* Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be recalled by their maker.
* If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
* If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
* It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to be kind to others.
* Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on.
* Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.
* Since the early worm gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.
*Remember, it's the second mouse that gets the cheese.
* When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.
* Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.
* You may be only one person in all the world, but you may also be all the world to one person.
* Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.
* We could learn a lot from crayons... Some are sharp, some are pretty, and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box.
*A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.


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Peace


www.gratefulness.org

There is no way to peace.

Peace is the way.
A.J. Muste

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Each Day

Each day, whatever I am doing,
I am always praying and thinking of God.
Thomas Yellowtail, Crow
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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Wash Day



Monday – Wash Day
Lord, help me wash away all my selfishness and vanity, so I may serve you with perfect humility through the week ahead.

Tuesday ‑ Ironing Day
Dear Lord, help me iron out all the wrinkles of prejudice I have collected through the years so that I may see the beauty in others.

Wednesday ‑ Mending Day
O God, help me mend my ways so I will not set a bad example for others.

Thursday ‑ Cleaning Day
Lord Jesus, help me to dust out all the many faults I have been hiding in the secret corners of my heart.

Friday ‑ Shopping Day
O God, give me the grace to shop wisely so I may purchase eternal happiness for myself and all others in need of love.

Saturday ‑ Cooking Day
Help me, my Savior, to brew a big kettle of brotherly love and serve it with clean, sweet bread of human kindness.

Sunday ‑ The Lord's Day
O God, I have prepared my house for you.
Please come into my heart so I may spend the day and the rest of my life in your presence.

'Be kinder than necessary,
for everyone you meet is fighting
some kind of battle.'
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Sunday, June 8, 2008

Here Are My Ideals



www.gratefulness.org

Most of us look at our ideals,
say how far we are from them,
and get depressed.
But it is heroic simply to say,
"Here are my ideals,"
state them before the world,
and then spend your life
trying to live up to them.

Keshavan Nair
New Dimensions Radio interview

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A Chance For Your Best

A problem is a chance for you to do your best.
Duke Ellington
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Finding Our Own Paths



Entering Awareness


Entering into our own spirituality is a private journey.
Each of us will be drawn to a different gateway to begin on our personal path to awakening to a greater experience of ourselves.
Even though we may be taught certain philosophies or beliefs as children, we still need to find our own way of understanding and applying them in our lives.
For those who are raised without a spiritual framework, they may not even know their process as a form of spirituality.
But at some stage in their lives, whether in youth or adulthood, they are likely to recognize the resonance of their beliefs, the ring of truth in their philosophy, and their dedication to their chosen purpose.


Our inner guidance will lead us, so that we will be drawn to the right doorway for us--a doorway that only we can recognize by the way it makes us feel inside.
We may meet someone special who shares their experiences with us in a way that we find intriguing.
While visiting the home of an admired friend, we may notice a book or statue of a diety, and ask why they chose those tools.
Or a word or phrase may catch our attention in a song, or a lecture.
For some they may find their way by walking through the experience of illness before they begin the search for what will help them to truly heal, while others may seek physical improvement and stumble across yoga or meditation--only to find that it leads them to an unexpected place beyond the body.

As we awaken to ourselves and to life, we will become more attuned to what is right for us.
The universe speaks to all of us through infinite channels, but we each have our own frequency.

Others may share what worked for them, but only we can decide what truly makes us feel inspired, awakened, connected, fully conscious, aware and alive.

Whatever our path, it is perfect and is meant especially for us.

DailyOM

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Thursday, June 5, 2008

My Time


There are many fine things
which you mean to do some day,
under what you think will be
more favorable circumstances.

But the only time that is yours
is the present.

Grenville Kleiser

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Memorial Day and The Bracelet

Memorial Day and The Bracelet
By Maryl Ball Sellman
Oslo American School 1960-1963

Recently, America took time to honor our heroes in the form of Memorial Day, a holiday especially poignant to military families. Memorial Day took on a new meaning for me with just a simple bracelet.

Maj. Robert Dyczkowski was a man I never met, yet I knew him well. I kept him alive in my heart with his name and date of disappearance in Vietnam etched in a POW/MIA bracelet I wore on my left wrist for 25 years until circumstances led to its removal.

In 1970, I was a senior in college. I noticed a group of women calling themselves “Mothers and Others for Peace” assembling in the quad on campus. They were passing out bracelets, asking students to put them on until the soldier whose name was on the bracelet had returned. I ambled on over, stuck my hand in the box, plucked out one that read “Maj. Robert Dyczkowski 23 April 1966,” put it on my wrist as a commitment, and on that day, began a ritual of silently saying a prayer for his safe return.

Years passed---25 to be exact. I got married, we had children, we moved to different homes, worked, lived our lives like everyone else, and yet I always knew that there was another person with us at all times. The bracelet went through lots of wear and tear, and had to be taken often to a jeweler to be bolstered when it would become bent to the point of breaking from being caught on a stroller or in the handles of an extraordinarily heavy plastic grocery bag. In the 25th year of my life with Maj. Dyczkowski, I happened to be at my doctor’s office. He saw my scratched, dented and repaired bracelet, then looked at me and sadly commented, “I don’t think he will be coming home.” It was something I hadn’t even considered, because it was a part of my skin at this point and to be honest, I was a bit unsettled by his words.

The next day, I decided it was finally time for me to research this man and find out what I could about his life and service to America. I drove to our small library, walked up to the reference desk and asked if I could order information on a soldier missing in action from the Library of Congress, since this was in the days when I didn’t know much about the internet and it was my only option.

“Library of Congress, eh?” quipped the clerk. “Good luck with that, honey. Here’s the form. It‘s supposed to be here in two weeks, but I wouldn‘t count on it.”

I waited the obligatory two weeks, then returned with my hopes high. I saw a different clerk at the desk and inquired about my microfilm order from the Library of Congress.

“Library of Congress, eh?” smiled the new clerk. “Not here yet. Good luck. Might be a couple of months.”

I returned three weeks later and there it was, a roll of black microfilm as large as a Goodyear tire. My heart thudded in my chest as I walked to the machine which would reveal this man’s story. I sat in the chair, threaded the film, and quickly realized that this particular roll of film was not just about my soldier. It contained the personal and military information of hundreds of soldiers declared prisoners of war or missing in action, and I knew I would be sitting there far longer than anticipated as I couldn’t just roll the film through to my final destination. My eyes were transfixed on each serviceman’s life and the information relating to them.
The reel was filled with biographical, personal and military information (with numerical addresses as well as some personal and military data blacked out), the circumstances of their disappearance, letters of testimony from other soldiers who were with them at the time of their capture or disappearance, as well as letters from mothers, wives, children, relatives. These were letters of anguish and despair, frustration, pleas, and heart-wrenching agony over what had happened their son, their husband, their father. They desperately wanted answers. They needed closure. I quietly sat there in the library with tears streaming down my face for the those soldiers and for their families who would never know what had happened to their loved ones. I tried to control myself, for it was difficult to read anything while my eyes were filled with tears and my heart with grief.

Finally, near the end (of course) of the reel, there was the lengthy file on Maj. Robert Dyczkowski, complete with a picture of a young, handsome, proud and smiling Air Force Major in uniform, and I really did lose it at that point. I managed to get up and walked to the desk, bought a roll of quarters, and began making copies of everything disclosed about him. I learned he was married with two young daughters, had been flying with two other jets on a mission in Vietnam when his plane was hit and he just disappeared, giving everyone hope he had been captured, not killed. Sadly, many decades later, his military tags were on display in a museum in Hanoi where American diplomats were allowed to enter and collect data. The military had declared him dead and promoted him to the rank of Colonel.

It’s amazing how coincidences occur in our lives. Inside his dossier, Maj. Dyczkowski, along with his wife and little girls, had lived in my home town! Their numerical address was blocked out, but the street was only a few blocks from the library. I was stunned. Years later when I finally mastered the technology of the internet, I looked up the last name of his wife, hoping she hadn’t remarried, and there she was, now living in another state. I wrote her a letter explaining how I had kept the memory of her husband on my wrist and asked if she would like for me to send her the bracelet. She replied immediately and thanked me for wearing that bracelet, and told me that I could take it off and put it in a place where I would continue to think about him and the sacrifice that he made for our country as well as all the other men and women who have made the supreme sacrifice for the United States of America.

Memorial Day took on another new meaning for me at that moment, all because of a bracelet.

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